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What Is Holding You Back?

10/28/2013

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"If I hold back, I'm no good.
I'd rather be good sometimes, than
holding back all the time."
- Janis Joplin

Choose to experience what more life has to offer...

There are an endless number of ways we hold ourselves back from even slightly reaching our potential. We create all kinds of self-imposed limitations as to what is possible for us through our thoughts, intentions and beliefs.

It has been well documented that our belief system affects how we act and perform. Our beliefs even help in molding our life. When we believe something is possible, many times we will find a way to make it happen. When we choose not to believe it is possible we rarely even make the effort. It is pretty easy to feel that truth.

Now, imagine what life would be like if, instead of creating restrictions we created possibilities. We know that the mind cannot come up with a vision or goal that we are not capable of accomplishing. We just have to be willing to think big, or at least bigger, and take inspired action. Go ahead, give it a try.

  • Take the time to identify your core beliefs and look at how they form your perceptions about life-relationships, finances, health, career, etc.
  • Determine what beliefs are true and support you in living a fulfilled life. Then look for those that are actually based in fear and limit your potential.
  • Then, explore what more you could complete if you were willing to let the beliefs that hold you back go. So, what is holding you back?

Remember, life can ALWAYS BE BETTER!


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Life Is Not About You...

10/21/2013

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"Life is like a ten-speed bike. Most of us have gears we never use."
— Charles Shultz

Remember not to take things so personally.

When you become aware of the fact that thoughts are indeed a form of energy and those thoughts hold the power to form your world, you will quickly begin paying attention to those thoughts running through your head. Many times, we fall into the world of misunderstanding and personalization.

Worrying about what others think of us is just one of those slippery slopes we all run into. Left unchecked we start to live our lives to please others, while surrendering our own happiness. Obviously, this is not a path for living fully.

The 18/40/60 rule, developed by Dr. Daniel Amen's offers a simple truth: “When you're 18, you worry about what everybody is thinking of you; when you're 40, you don't give a darn what anybody thinks of you; when you're 60, you realize nobody's been thinking about you at all.”

  • Check in to see how often you are concerned about what other people think.
  • Pay close attention to what is driving the decisions you make.
  • Are your choices supporting the life you want to live?

Remember, life can ALWAYS BE BETTER!

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Finding The Value in Hardship...

10/14/2013

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“When you fall down, rise up. When you fall again, rise up again. This is
just a developmental process that makes a healthy baby become a successful man.”
― Israelmore Ayivor

You CAN grow through the challenges in life!

Life's encounters are not usually welcomed with an open door. Yet, the truth is that every problem we face presents an opportunity for us to grow through. Certainly, it is easy to overlook the gift within when problems first arrive. That is why it is so important to think about and look for the understanding that is associated with these hardships.

Sometimes we need a little space in order to learn from life's little challenges. It is much easier to work a little change, and transform discomfort into wisdom, once we are on the other side of the problem. Best of all, is that the more you practice looking for the reward within the challenge, the faster you will see it the next time around.

There is an old saying, Eric Butter worth once said, "Don’t go through life, grow through life." It is important to learn to look for the value within each experience to gain the understanding. Then you can use insights to make better choices as you move toward the goal.

  • Look at the challenges you've faced in your life and make a list of all of the gifts you received by experiencing them them.
  • Then remind yourself of these gifts the next time a hardship brings you down.

Remember, life can ALWAYS BE BETTER!
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Use Your Time Wisely...

10/7/2013

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“The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing. ”
―
Walt Disney

Life is more than being busy.

It is far too easy to fall into the belief that being busy somehow creates productivity. When you look at it from the outside, keeping yourself busy often gives the false impression of advancement, intention, determination and emphasis. The facts are that being busy has no inherent value.

If you are not busy taking action toward the life you desire for yourself, more than likely you are spending this time distracting yourself. I know that is what I have done in the past. I even catch myself doing it now from time to time. We keep ourselves so busy that we don't even have the time to see that we are avoiding the situation all together.

However, when you are serious about taking the steps to move your life in the right direction you WILL make time to reflect, learn and apply. The first step is to take an honest look at whether your actions, time and energy are in alignment with the vision you have for your life. Then, you will need to “look under the hood” to see what's really driving you.

Four keys to success in this area are:

  • Make time daily to  do a personal check-in for 5 minutes.
  • Were your actions in line with your vision?
  • Were your actions the best use of your time?
  • Finally, take your own advice and keep doing more of what works and do less of what does not work!


Remember, life can ALWAYS BE BETTER!
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