“My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me.” ― Jim Valvano | Flush Out Those False Beliefs! Simply put, FEAR breaks down to False Energy Against Reality! False beliefs! Do you ever feel stuck in a rut of unhelpful beliefs, leading to unhealthy habits causing unconscious actions? This checklist may give you an idea of what beliefs need updating! Step 1 is to complete these sentences: For example: When under pressure I ……….………………………. I often feel guilty about ...........………………………. When ………………………. happens I stress out and feel like ……………………….... My Achilles' heel (greatest weakness) is ..…………. I am always trying to stop …..…………. from happening. When the unexpected happens I …………………….. I always try to ...……………………………………….. The biggest obstacle that stops me loving and approving of myself is ………………....... What drives most of my behavior is …………………. I am afraid of ..………………………………………….. I seek my ……………'s approval (always / mostly / usually / occasionally) My most frequent negative and uncomfortable emotion is feeling …………………...... The feeling I dislike the most is ………………………. I need to learn to ……………………………………….. Congratulations - that took courage! Step 2 - Now you have identified your false beliefs, go back and re-do the exercise writing how you would like to be. For example: When under pressure I … suffer great anxiety becomes When under pressure I … think about the situation calmly and ask for support as needed. |
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